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I know I dont usually slam this blog with cold hard facts but I thought it would be nice for you to know the depth of Cyberbulling not just the stories. Cyberbullying is the use of the Internet and related technologies to harm or harass other people, in a deliberate, repeated, and hostile manner.[1] As it has become more common in society, particularly among young people, legislation and awareness campaigns have arisen to combat it. DefinitionLegal definitionCyberbullying is defined in legal glossaries as actions that use information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group, that is intended to harm another or others. use of communication technologies for the intention of harming another person use of internet service and mobile technologies such as web pages and discussion groups as well as instant messaging or SMS text messaging with the intention of harming another person. Examples of what constitutes cyberbullying include communications that seek to intimidate, control, manipulate, put down, falsely discredit, or humiliate the recipient. The actions are deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior intended to harm another. Cyberbullying has been defined by The National Crime Prevention Council: “When the Internet, cell phones or other devices are used to send or post text or images intended to hurt or embarrass another person."[2][3] A cyberbully may be a person whom the target knows or an online stranger. A cyberbully may be anonymous and may solicit involvement of other people online who do not even know the target. This is known as a 'digital pile-on.'[4] Cyberbullying vs. cyberstalkingFurther information: Cyberstalking The practice of cyberbullying is not limited to children and, while the behavior is identified by the same definition when practiced by adults, the distinction in age groups sometimes refers to the abuse as cyberstalking or cyberharassment when perpetrated by adults toward adults.[5] Common tactics used by cyberstalkers are performed in public forums, social media or online information sites and are intended to threaten a victim's earnings, employment, reputation, or safety. Behaviors may include encouraging others to harass the victim and trying to affect a victim's online participation. Many cyberstalkers try to damage the reputation of their victim and turn other people against them. Cyberstalking may include false accusations, monitoring, making threats, identity theft, damage to data or equipment, the solicitation of minors for sex, or gathering information in order to harass.[6] A repeated pattern of such actions and harassment against a target by an adult constitutes cyberstalking. Cyberstalking often features linked patterns of online and offline behavior. There are consequences of law in offline stalking and online stalking, and cyber-stalkers can be put in jail.[7] Cyberstalking is a form of cyberbullying.[8] Methods usedManuals to educate the public, teachers and parents summarize, "Cyberbullying is being cruel to others by sending or posting harmful material using a cell phone or the internet." Research, legislation and education in the field are ongoing. Basic definitions and guidelines to help recognize and cope with what is regarded as abuse of electronic communications have been identified. Cyberbullying involves repeated behavior with intent to harm and repeated nature Cyberbullying is perpetrated through Harassment, Cyberstalking, Denigration (sending or posting cruel rumors and falsehoods to damage reputation and friendships), Impersonation, Exclusion (intentionally and cruelly excluding someone from an online group)[9] Cyberbullying can be as simple as continuing to send e-mails or text messages harassing someone who has said they want no further contact with the sender. It may also include public actions such as repeated threats, sexual remarks, pejorative labels (i.e., hate speech) or defamatory false accusations), ganging up on a victim by making the person the subject of ridicule in online forums, hacking into or vandalizing sites about a person, and posting false statements as fact aimed a discrediting or humiliating a targeted person.[10] Cyberbullying could be limited to posting rumors about a person on the internet with the intention of bringing about hatred in others' minds or convincing others to dislike or participate in online denigration of a target. It may go to the extent of personally identifying victims of crime and publishing materials severely defaming or humiliating them.[2] Cyberbullies may disclose victims' personal data (e.g. real name, home address, or workplace/schools) at websites or forums or may use impersonation, creating fake accounts, comments or sites posing as their target for the purpose of publishing material in their name that defames, discredits or ridicules them. This can leave the cyberbully anonymous which can make it difficult for the offender to be caught or punished for their behavior. Though, not all cyberbullies use anonymity. Text or instant messages and emails between friends can also be cyberbullying if what is said or displayed is hurtful to the participants. Some cyberbullies may also send threatening and harassing emails, instant messages or texts to the victims. Others post rumors or gossip and instigate others to dislike and gang up on the target. Growing awarenessCyberbullying has subsequently been defined as "when the Internet, cell phones or other devices are used to send or post text or images intended to hurt or embarrass another person".[11] Other researchers use similar language to describe the phenomenon.[12][13] Law enforcement: cyberbullying, cyberstalking and electronic harassmentA majority of states have laws that explicitly include electronic forms of communication within stalking or harassment laws.[14][15] Most law enforcement agencies have cyber-crime units and often Internet stalking is treated with more seriousness than reports of physical stalking.[16] Help and resources can be searched by State or area. SchoolsThe safety of schools is increasingly becoming a focus of state legislative action. There was an increase in cyberbullying enacted legislation between 2006-2010.[17] Initiatives and curriclulum requirements also exist in the UK (the Ofsted eSafety guidance) and Australia (Overarching Learning Outcome 13). In 2012, a group of teens in New Haven, Connecticut developed an app to help fight bullying. Called "Back Off Bully" (BOB), the web app is an anonymous resource for computer, smart phone or iPad. When someone witnesses or is the victim of bullying, they can immediately report the incident. The app asks questions about time, location and how the bullying is happening. As well as providing positive action and empowerment over an incident, the reported information helps by going to a data base where administrators study it. Common threads are spotted so others can intervene and break the bully's pattern.[18] BOB, the brainchild of fourteen teens in a design class, is being considered as standard operating procedure at schools across the state. Protection for victims of any ageThere are laws that only address online harassment of children or focus on child predators as well as laws that protect adult cyberstalking victims, or victims of any age. Currently, there are 45 cyberstalking (and related) laws on the books. While some sites specialize in laws that protect victims age 18 and under, Working to Halt Online Abuse is a help resource containing a list of current and pending cyberstalking-related United States federal and state laws.[19] It also lists those states that do not have laws yet and related laws from other countries. The Global Cyber Law Database (GCLD) aims to become the most comprehensive and authoritative source of cyber laws for all countries.[20] Behavior Cyberbullying by email from a fictional friend@hotmail.comChildren and adolescentsKids report being mean to each other online beginning as young as 2nd grade. According to research, boys initiate mean online activity earlier than girls do. However, by middle school, girls are more likely to engage in cyberbullying than boys.[21] Whether the bully is male or female, his or her purpose is to intentionally embarrass others, harass, intimidate, or make threats online to one another. This bullying occurs via email, text messaging, posts to blogs, and web sites. The National Crime Prevention Association lists tactics often used by teen cyberbullies.[22] Pretend they are other people online to trick others Spread lies and rumors about victims Trick people into revealing personal information Send or forward mean text messages Post pictures of victims without their consent Studies in the psychosocial effects of cyberspace have begun to monitor the impacts cyberbullying may have on the victims, and the consequences it may lead to. Consequences of cyberbullying are multi-faceted, and affect online and offline behavior. Research on adolescents reported that changes in the victims' behavior as a result of cyberbullying could be positive. Victims "created a cognitive pattern of bullies, which consequently helped them to recognize aggressive people."[23] However, the Journal of Psychosocial Research on Cyberspace abstract reports critical impacts in almost all of the respondents’, taking the form of lower self-esteem, loneliness, disillusionment, and distrust of people. The more extreme impacts were self-harm. Children have killed each other and committed suicide after having been involved in a cyberbullying incident.[24] The most current research in the field defines cyberbullying as "an aggressive, intentional act or behaviour that is carried out by a group or an individual repeatedly and over time against a victim who cannot easily defend him or herself" (Smith & Slonje, 2007, p. 249).[23] Though the use of sexual remarks and threats are sometimes present in cyberbullying, it is not the same as sexual harassment, typically occurs among peers, and does not necessarily involve sexual predators. Some cases of digital self-harm have been reported, where an individual engages in cyberbullying against themselves.[25][26] AdultsStalking online has criminal consequences just as physical stalking. A target's understanding of why cyberstalking is happening is helpful to remedy and take protective action to restore remedy. Cyberstalking is an extension of physical stalking.[27] Among factors that motivate stalkers are: envy, pathological obsession (professional or sexual), unemployment or failure with own job or life; intention to intimidate and cause others to feel inferior; the stalker is delusional and believes he/she "knows" the target; the stalker wants to instill fear in a person to justify his/her status; belief they can get away with it (anonymity).[28] UK National Workplace Bullying Advice Line theorizes that bullies harass victims in order to make up for inadequacies in their own lives.[29] The US federal cyberstalking law is designed to prosecute people for using electronic means to repeatedly harass or threaten someone online. There are resources dedicated to assisting adult victims deal with cyberbullies legally and effectively. One of the steps recommended is to record everything and contact police.[30][31] Legislation against cyberbullyingMain article: Cyberstalking legislation United StatesLegislation geared at penalizing cyberbullying has been introduced in a number of U.S. states including New York, Missouri, Rhode Island and Maryland. At least forty five states passed laws against digital harassment.[47] Dardenne Prairie of Springfield, Missouri, passed a city ordinance making online harassment a misdemeanor. The city of St. Charles, Missouri has passed a similar ordinance. Missouri is among other states where lawmakers are pursuing state legislation, with a task forces expected to have “cyberbullying” laws drafted and implemented.[48] In June, 2008, Rep. Linda Sanchez (D-Calif.) and Rep. Kenny Hulshof (R-Mo.) proposed a federal law that would criminalize acts of cyberbullying.[49] Lawmakers are seeking to address cyberbullying with new legislation because there's currently no specific law on the books that deals with it. A fairly new federal cyberstalking law might address such acts, according to Parry Aftab, but no one has been prosecuted under it yet. The proposed federal law would make it illegal to use electronic means to "coerce, intimidate, harass or cause other substantial emotional distress." In August 2008, the California state legislature passed one of the first laws in the country to deal directly with cyberbullying. The legislation, Assembly Bill 86 2008, gives school administrators the authority to discipline students for bullying others offline or online.[50] This law took effect, January 1, 2009.[51] A recent ruling first seen in the UK determined that it is possible for an Internet Service Provider (ISP) to be liable for the content of sites which it hosts, setting a precedent that any ISP should treat a notice of complaint seriously and investigate it immediately.[52] 18 U.S.C. § 875(c) criminalizes the making of threats via Internet. Research on preventative legislationResearchers suggest that programs be put in place for prevention of cyberbullying. These programs would be incorporated into school curricula and would include online safety and instruction on how to use the Internet properly.[53] This could teach the victim proper methods of potentially avoiding the cyberbully, such as blocking messages or increasing the security on their computer.[53] Within this suggested school prevention model, even in a perfect world, not one crime can be stopped fully. That is why it is suggested that within this prevention method, effective coping strategies should be introduced and adopted. As with any crime, people learn to cope with what has happened, and the same goes for cyberbullying. People can adopt coping strategies to combat future cyberbullying events. An example of a coping strategy would be a social support group composed of various victims of cyberbullying.[53] That could come together and share experiences, with a formal speaker leading the discussion. Something like a support group can allow students to share their stories, and allows that feeling of them being alone to be removed. Teachers should be involved in all prevention educational models, as they are essentially the "police" of the classroom. Most cyberbullying often goes unreported as the victim feels nothing can be done to help in their current situation.[53] However, if given the proper tools with preventative measures and more power in the classroom, teachers can be of assistance to the problem of cyber-bullying. If the parent, teacher, and victim can work together, a possible solution or remedy can be found.[53] There have been many legislative attempts to facilitate the control of bullying and cyberbullying. The problem is due to the fact that some existing legislation is incorrectly thought to be tied to bullying and cyberbullying (terms such as libel and slander). The problem is they do not directly apply to it nor define it as its own criminal behavior.[54] Anti-cyberbullying advocates even expressed concern about the broad scope of applicability of some of the bills attempted to be passed.[55] In the United States, attempts were made to pass legislation against cyberbullying. Few states attempted to pass broad sanctions in an effort to prohibit cyberbullying. Problem include how to define cyberbullying and cyberstalking, and if charges are pressed, whether it violates the bully's freedom of speech.[55] B. Walther has said that "Illinois is the only state to criminalize 'electronic communication(s) sent for the purpose of harassing another person' when the activity takes place outside a public school setting." Again this came under fire for infringement on freedom of speech.[55] Harmful effectsResearch had demonstrated a number of serious consequences of cyberbullying victimization.[13][40][41][43] For example, victims have lower self-esteem, increased suicidal ideation, and a variety of emotional responses, retaliating, being scared, frustrated, angry, and depressed.[43] One of the most damaging effects is that a victim begins to avoid friends and activities, often the very intention of the cyberbully. Cyberbullying campaigns are sometimes so damaging that victims have committed suicide. There are at least four examples in the United States where cyberbullying has been linked to the suicide of a teenager.[43] The suicide of Megan Meier is a recent example that led to the conviction of the adult perpetrator of the attacks. According to Lucie Russell, director of campaigns, policy and participation at youth mental health charity Young Minds, young people who suffer from mental disorder are vulnerable to cyberbullying as they are sometimes unable to shrug it off: When someone says nasty things healthy people can filter that out, they're able to put a block between that and their self-esteem. But mentally unwell people don't have the strength and the self-esteem to do that, to separate it, and so it gets compiled with everything else. To them, it becomes the absolute truth – there's no filter, there's no block. That person will take that on, take it as fact.[56] Intimidation, emotional damage, suicideAccording to the Cyberbullying Research Center, "there have been several high‐profile cases involving teenagers taking their own lives in part because of being harassed and mistreated over the Internet, a phenomenon we have termed cyberbullicide – suicide indirectly or directly influenced by experiences with online aggression." Cyberbullying is an intense form of psychological abuse, whose victims are more than twice as likely to suffer from mental disorders compared to traditional bullying.[57] The reluctance youth have in telling an authority figure about instances of cyberbullying has led to fatal outcomes. At least three children between the ages of 12 and 13 have committed suicide due to depression brought on by cyberbullying, according to reports by USA Today and the Baltimore Examiner. These would include the suicide of Ryan Halligan and the suicide of Megan Meier, the latter of which resulted in United States v. Lori Drew. Credits- Wikipedia

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I was reading an article online talking about how many parents who's childern committed suicide are trying very hard to make it illegal to cyberbully . I thought that this is a very good idea. Every day over 100 people commit suicide because of bulling and the only way to make people want to stop cyber bulling is by making them criminals. Do you agree that Cyberbulling should be illegal?

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I found this sad but true story on http://www.aftab.com/index.php?page=the-stopcyberbullying-pledge It is long but it is worth a read... I almost teared up reading it.


Megan Meier was thirteen when she died. She had been bullied most of her life, especially in
middle school.
When Megan was in third grade she was diagnosed with ADD and with depression. She was
placed on medication to help with her disorder. These medications made it very difficult for her
to maintain a normal weight, and she found herself getting heavier and heavier. Seventh grade
was the hardest for Megan. Many students bullied her and were mean to her because of her
weight.When she went into the cafeteria to eat lunch, some boys in her class would walk
behind her making elephant sounds to mock her. She stopped eating at school.
Even though many others were not friendly to her, Megan put “being a good friend” at the top
of her list. When someone she knew was having a bad day, Megan would bring them a
chocolate bar to help them cheer up. She spent a great deal of time listening to her friends and
doing things that she thought a good friend would do.
Megan was like all other thirteen-year-old girls. She read fashion magazines and wanted to
wear the “kewl” clothes that other, thinner, girls would wear. But those clothes weren’t
designed for heavier girls. Frustrated and sad, she wore less fashionable clothes and just
watched others walk into school wearing the clothes she wished she could wear. What she
couldn’t do with clothing, though, she did with other fashionable ideas. She learned how to
wear makeup to play up her beautiful eyes. And she chose black and white polka dots as her
theme (white dots on a black background). She wore black and white polka dot ribbons in her
hair and black and white polka dot nail polish designs on her toes and fingers. (When her school
objected to the nail polish, she kept them on her toes, hidden under her socks. )
Seventh grade was so horrible that Megan’s parents, Ron and Tina Meier, enrolled her in a new
private school for eighth grade. It was an immediate improvement. Everyone had to wear
uniforms, so no one had fashionable clothes that Megan couldn’t wear. She made new friends
easily and got involved in sports. She was losing weight because she was more active and
happier. Everything was looking up. She was happy for the first time in years.
In October, six weeks before her 14th birthday, she approached her mom, Tina, and asked if she
could have a MySpace. (Her mom was pretty strict about the Internet.) Tina said Megan could
have a MySpace as long as Tina controlled the password. She would log Megan on when shewanted to use it and also used monitoring software to supervise any postings and
communications. Megan was so grateful that she was allowed a MySpace that she didn’t mind
her mom’s rules. She designed her MySpace to show off her interests and had lots of pictures of
her pretty face highlighting her beautiful eyes. As many teens before her had already learned,
heavier teens can mask their weight online. Online Megan was thin, funny and popular. It was
where Megan could be the girl she wanted to be. Where others could look beyond her weight
and into her heart to see how special she was.
Megan would log on every day and check for friend requests and new messages. She would
check out the profiles of other teens too, and looked for ways of improving her “space.” And it
paid off. “Josh”, a cute sixteen year old boy who was moving to her small town and was being
home-schooled contacted her. He said he was looking for friends in his new town and thought
Megan had “pretty eyes.” For weeks Josh became the focus of Megan’s MySpace
communications. He was the first person she wanted to “talk” with every day when she came
home from school. He was becoming her best friend and she had a huge crush on him. And he
was 16! That was a big ego-booster for a thirteen year old.
Her mom knew all about Josh, but also knew it was innocent and she was monitoring their
communications. She was pleased that Megan was happy finally, after all these years. Megan
had it all, a new school, new friends and a 16-year-old cute friend who seemed to appreciate
how special Megan was.
Megan was planning a special birthday party that year. She was inviting all her new friends and
had planned everything down to the last detail with her mom. They had worked on the
invitations together and she would be handing them out in school the next day. When Megan
logged on, she saw a message from Josh telling her he didn’t want to be her friend anymore,
and that he had “heard” about her. He had heard that she was a “bad friend.”
This hurt Megan. But it worried her even more. Had some of the old bullies found Josh? Was
the bullying and cyberbullying going to start again? If it did, would it reach the new school? Was
the pain going to begin all over again?
She asked him what he was talking about. What had he heard? Who had he heard it from? But
he wouldn’t tell her. He was just mean. And Megan was hurt and scared about what this meant.
She was afraid of her life going back to her horrible experience in seventh grade.
Megan’s mom told her that Josh might have been having a bad day, and they could work it out
tomorrow. Megan went to bed, but couldn’t stop thinking about it. She didn’t get much sleepthat night, even though she was excited about giving out the invitations to her party. But by
morning, things seemed sunnier and she thought maybe her mom was right, after all.
She handed out the invitations and talked about her upcoming party with everyone she met. By
the time she got home from school, she was feeling happy. Then she logged into her MySpace.
Josh had logged in before her and had started a verbal assault, starting by calling her names.
She was accused of being a slut, and taunted for being “fat” and then things went downhill fast.
The attacks become more hurtful and more personal. “Josh” threw everything he could at her.
And she tried desperately to defend herself. And then tried fighting back. But Josh, by this time,
wasn’t alone. Others had joined in, and hateful messages after hateful messages were hurled at
her. Each message landed painfully in her heart.
One, after another, she couldn’t fight them off. She was in tears, sobbing while typing furiously
trying to defend herself. Trying to fight them off, to no avail.
When her mom heard her crying, she walked into the room. Megan explained what was going
on and Tina (her mom) told her to log off. She had to take Megan’s sister to a medical
appointment, and Tina told Megan they would handle it when she got home again in a few
hours. Megan reluctantly agreed to log off, and Tina left.
Several times Tina spoke with Megan, checking in. each time Megan sobbed into the phone
telling Tina how horrible it was. Tina was upset that Megan hadn’t logged off as promised. She
was frustrated that she wouldn’t be able to get home for another hour or so. She insisted that
Megan log off. And each time, Megan promised that she would. But she didn’t.
By the time Tina got back home with Megan’s sister, more than 2 hours had passed. Megan was
hysterical. And Tina was, understandably, angry that Megan had broken her promise and things
had gotten out of control over the 2-3 hour period she was gone. They argued, and Tina sent
Megan to her room, while she talked the problem over with Megan’s father. Megan shouted
over her shoulder as she stormed up the stairs. “You’re supposed to take my side,” she sobbedas she slammed her bedroom door.Tina and Ron didn’t know what to do. They talked about Megan’s breaking the rules and what
this could mean to her emotional health. Suddenly, Tina felt a chill down her spine. She ran up
the stairs and swung her door wide open. There she found Megan hanging from the clothing
rod in her closet.The world quickly spun out of control. A neighbor, trained in CPR, was sought. But all of his
efforts and those of the EMTs and hospital emergency room staff didn’t make any difference.
She was pronounced dead the next day.
The Meiers found themselves planning a funeral for Megan, instead of her birthday party.
Everyone was numb with the loss.
A few weeks after the funeral, the phone rang. It was a mother from the neighborhood. She
said she had something serious to tell Tina. It appeared that “Josh” wasn’t a cute sixteen-yearold
after all. He was the brainchild of Lori Drew, the mother of one of Megan’s former friends.
Lori’s daughter had been one of Megan’s bullies the year before in school. She was one of the
7th graders the Meiers were trying to protect Megan from.
Lori and her babysitter, Ashley, had created a fake MySpace profile posing as Josh to lull Megan
into confiding “him.” Tina was devastated. It was horrible losing her daughter. But knowing that
her death was instigated by the cruel hoax of another mother and neighbor was too much for
Tina and Ron to handle. This was particularly confusing, since Lori knew Megan has been under
treatment for depression. (Lori had to administer the anti-depression medication when Megan
has taken a vacation with the Drews when she used to be friends with their daughter.)
Many teens have been harassed by others. And too many have chosen suicide rather than face
continued torment. But this is the first time that a mother was responsible for the harassment
that led to the death of a teen. Megan’s friends and family mourn her and think about her
every day. And so do so many others.
What can we do about it? We can continue to ask for justice. And we can take a stand, today, to
stop cyberbullying wherever and whenever it occurs.
It may be too late to save Megan’s life, but it is not too late to save the lives of others. One of
our Teenangels (Teenangels.org) said that “cyberbullying hurts your heart.” Long after the
bruises of offline bullying have healed, the words images and hate live on in cyberspace, on
cellphones, text-messaging devices and on gaming sites. The attacks can be relived moment by
moment when the victim visits the site of the attacks, or receives a message containing more
hate.
You never know if it’s your best friend or worst enemy, or even a mother down the street.

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What to do when you are being Cyber Bullied

Are you being Cyber Bullied? If the answer is yes dont panic often when people bully others it is because they are feeling insecure about themselves. Although this doesnt mean you should keep quit and let them torment you. Speek up to an adult. This may sound cliche but it will really help. Although before that print off all evidence of Cyber Bulling then when you have done that dow it to an teacher, parent, friend or trusted adult.WARNING do not let it go to far and whatever you do dont think that you cant speek up if you do I guarantee that your life will be a Whole lot better.And you are not alone there are many people you can talk to. If you dont want to talk to someone you know you can always call Kids Help Phone at 1 800 688 6868

The Effects

Have you ever wondered what the effects of cyber bulling are? Well it is a lot more sirious then crying in to your pillow.

When teens are cyber bullied over and over for months, they are pushed to a breacking point. at this point they begine to self harm. This includs... Cutting, drug and achol abuse and eventually suicid!

After seeing that would you like to be a cyber bully? Are you a cyber bully alredy? If you are are you going to stop pushing somebody towords self harm just because it seems FUN?

My Story

I decided to make a blog about cyberbullying because I don't think that it is right for teens to self harm or end their life before it even starts.The latest teen sucide case, Amanda Todd was very touching. Amanda made a mistake like everyone on earth has and she was pushed to end her life. This should never happen to anyone, but cyberbullies continue to hide behind the screen and they never seem to get the fact that they are slowly killing someone inside and they SHOULD AND HAVE TO BE STOPPED! Do you agree that cyber bullies should be stopped? Or do you think it is the victems are just playing iniccont and asked for it? Comment your opinion below. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3he5WyZS8nc